15th November 2025

Making certain youngsters’s privateness, defending monetary particulars and conserving delicate private points out of public eye high of thoughts

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By Laurie Pawlitza and Adam N. Black

Prime Minister Justin Trudeau’s social media announcement concerning the finish of his 18-year marriage made information worldwide this week. For most individuals going by way of a divorce, the stakes are excessive and the method is tough, however a divorce attracting public consideration is much more daunting. Making certain youngsters’s privateness, defending monetary data and conserving delicate private points out of the general public eye are sometimes top-of-mind in a celeb divorce, and little question have been for the Trudeaus. Listed here are a number of the main do’s and don’ts a separated couple ought to take note in a high-profile divorce. 

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1. Consider the youngsters first 

Irrespective of how outdated youngsters are, they are going to be affected by a separation. It’s the dad and mom’ accountability to attenuate the injury. The Trudeaus have introduced that their youngsters will stay in Rideau Cottage with the prime minister, and Sophie Grégoire Trudeau will transfer out, however will return when the prime minister is away. Given the PM’s schedule, it’s probably that Grégoire Trudeau can be at Rideau Cottage deal. This idea — the place dad and mom transfer out and in of the house however the youngsters stay in a single place — is known as nesting. It’s often a short-term association as, in lots of circumstances, civility tends to disintegrate when spouses re-partner. It’s, nonetheless, non permanent resolution which permits the youngsters to stay of their residence throughout a time of transition.  

2. Select the fitting solution to resolve your dispute 

Privateness is often necessary in a high-stakes divorce and household legislation proceedings are public. If a separating couple reaches an settlement out of courtroom, they’re extra prone to management the decision and any messaging that flows from it. If direct negotiations are unsuccessful, selecting mediation and arbitration are confidential options through which separated spouses rent a impartial third occasion, typically a lawyer, to resolve the dispute. A mediator facilitates a settlement whereas an arbitrator could make a binding determination concerning the dispute, very like a decide. Each events should comply with take part within the course of. The settlement often features a confidentiality clause, guaranteeing the method and data exchanged inside it stay confidential.   

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If mediation fails or one partner refuses to arbitrate, the courtroom is the one possibility left. Whereas the proceedings are public, a pair might ask the decide to make use of initials as a substitute of the events’ names.  Alternatively, a request might be made to seal the courtroom file. Nonetheless, as a result of courts are supposed to be clear, the edge for a sealing order is excessive. Absent a severe danger to the administration of justice, judges are reluctant to make a sealing order.   

3. Don’t withhold monetary disclosure 

Resolving a household legislation dispute requires the trade of full and frank monetary disclosure by each events. For celebrities, enterprise leaders and different high-profile {couples}, the monetary stakes might be huge. For instance, Mackenzie Bezos, the previous spouse of Amazon.com Inc. founder Jeff Bezos, reportedly obtained greater than US$38 billion in inventory in a divorce settlement in 2019. 

These sorts of figures lead some to aim to cover belongings, but when a celebration unreasonably withholds related monetary data, courtroom proceedings will nearly actually observe. Given the judicial intolerance in the direction of refusing to supply disclosure, the withholding occasion will extremely probably be ordered to supply it and is commonly ordered by the decide to pay prices. 

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The place the availability of monetary disclosure in courtroom creates a danger for the individual being requested to supply it (similar to delicate enterprise data changing into out there to opponents) separated spouses ought to take into account a non-disclosure settlement previous to offering the disclosure. 

4. Don’t unilaterally change the monetary preparations 

On the heels of a separation, spouses ought to be cautious in taking any steps that may disrupt the monetary establishment. Leaving one partner with out entry to monetary assets will nearly actually land the couple in courtroom on an pressing foundation. If a partner is worried about funds being depleted after separation, fast steps ought to be taken with the help of a lawyer to ascertain correct help preparations. Till these are in place, spouses ought to observe spending and entry to funds with a purpose to account for it in a closing decision.  

5. Settlements might be extra artistic than the courtroom   

Youngsters’s points and earnings adjustments don’t finish with a separation settlement. Excessive-profile separated {couples} want to consider future adjustments and plan for them in a method that ensures ongoing privateness and confidentiality. For instance, because the legislation requires baby help to be reviewed yearly, {couples} might want to take into account locking right into a dispute decision mannequin similar to mediation and/or arbitration for all future disputes. 

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6. Don’t rush to the end line 

A separated partner ought to by no means rush right into a settlement with a purpose to keep away from being within the highlight. Resolving the problems that come up from separation is a considerate, time-consuming and sophisticated train. Having all of the related data and understanding rights and obligations within the context of the household’s particular person circumstances is integral to attaining the very best consequence.  

  1. One couple had the validity of their separation agreement decided by Canada’s Supreme Court.

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  2. Couples should consider the impact a move to a new jurisdiction may have on an existing marriage contract.

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  3. Elizabeth Taylor and Elon Musk both split from partners only to later remarry the same person.

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The way in which the Trudeaus dealt with the announcement of their separation means that they’re heeding good authorized recommendation.   

Laurie Pawlitza is a senior associate and Adam N. Black is a associate within the household legislation group at Torkin Manes LLP in Toronto.

lpawlitza@torkinmanes.com

ablack@torkinmanes.com

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